alliance for children SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS

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The signs and symptoms of child abuse are not always obvious, especially in cases of child sexual abuse. Often children have been threatened or confused by their abuser not to disclose the abuse. The guidelines listed below are general signs and symptoms and if you notice these in your child you should ask them if anything has happened.

New Fears

Abused children or teenagers may develop new fears of situations, places, or people. They may become excessively shy, anxious, scared or withdrawn.


If children or teens are not allowed or able to express anger toward the abuser, they may take their anger out on others or against themselves.

Inappropriate Sexual Behaviors

Children may act out sexually. They may show an unusual interest in other people's or animal's genitals, or masturbate excessively. They may try to express affection in an inappropriate way, such as fondling private parts. Teens may participate in risky sexual behavior and make inappropriate advances in public.

Sleeping and Eating Problems

Children or teens may have problems sleeping, experience nightmares, or display sudden loss or gain in appetite. Children may regress in their development. A child might return to younger, more babyish behavior such as wetting the bed or thumb sucking.

Problems at School

Children or teens may have difficulty concentrating which can affect school performance. A change in grades or behavior at school is not uncommon.

Loss of Boundaries

Children or teens may be overly friendly and attached to total strangers, or they may tolerate abuse from other children. They may become excessively isolated and withdrawn, or may become overly obedient.

Self-Destructive Acts

Children or teens may feel such guilt and shame from the abuse that they may take their feelings out by hurting themselves. This may involve hitting or cutting themselves, using drugs and/or alcohol or even a suicide attempt. As teens that were abused as children mature, it is common for issues of abuse to resurface requiring additional or new services.

Lack of Personal Care or Hygiene

Abused and neglected children or teenagers may appear uncared for. They may present as consistently dirty and have severe body odor, or they may lack sufficient clothing for weather.

Risk-Taking Behaviors

Children or teenagers who are being abused may engage in high-risk activities such as using drugs or alcohol or carrying a weapon. 

Unexplained Injuries

Visible signs physical abuse may include unexplained burns or bruises in the shape of objects. You may also hear unconvincing explanations of a child's injuries.

Returning to Earlier Behavior

Abused children may display behaviors shown at earlier ages, such as thumb-sucking, bed-wetting, fear of the dark or strangers. For some children, even loss of acquired language or memory problems may be an issue. 

alliance for children PREVENTION

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Child abuse is preventable. There are steps we can take as a community to better protect children from harm.

Listen to your child: Talking with your child and listening to what he or she has to say is the first step in preventing abuse.

Know those that have contact with your child: Most abusers are someone the child or family knows and trusts.

Minimize Opportunity: Avoid one adult/one child situations.  Drop-in on situations where your child may be alone with another adult (even close family members).

Recognize the Signs: Don't expect obvious signs when a child is being abused. Signs are often there, but you have to know what to look for. Read more here.

Monitor your child’s Internet and cell phone use: Offenders often use the web and text messaging to lure them into physical contact.

Ask for help: Curb stressful situations by asking for help. Also, ask for help when children are left in your care.

React Responsibly: Be prepared to react responsibly if a child discloses abuse to you, or if you suspect or see that boundaries have been violated. 

Educate your child: Teach your child about their body and the difference between appropriate and inappropriate touches. They should also know that inappropriate touches could occur with strangers, a family member, adult friend or an older youth. Teach your child that it is okay to tell another safe adult.

Educate yourself: Sign up to take a free Stewards of Children® training class. See dates and register here.

alliance for children COMMUNITY RESOURCES

alliance for children REPORTING

Texas State Law requires that ANYONE "having cause to believe that a child's physical, mental health or welfare has been or may be adversely affected by abuse or neglect" MUST report the cause immediately. Failure to report child abuse is a misdemeanor punishable by law. Texas Family Code, Chapter 261.

You can make a report by calling 1.800.252.5400
Or you can make a report online at

 If you feel that a child is in immediate danger, call 911.

alliance for children EDUCATION

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Alliance For Children is committed to providing high quality prevention education and awareness programs in our community. All of our educational and community outreach is designed to empower adults and children to prevent child abuse. Our team of educators believe that, through prevention, we can raise awareness of the issue of child abuse and lessen the number of victims in Tarrant County.

Our educational programs include:


NetSmartz® is an interactive, educational safety resource developed by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children® and the Boys and Girls Clubs of America that teaches children and teens how to stay safe on the Internet.

P.S. It’s My Body! 

P.S. It's My Body! is an innovative, practical safety series for children designed by The Sunflower House to teach and reinforce the three R’s of personal safety: Recognizing, Resisting, and Reporting.

To schedule a NetSmartz® or P.S. It's My Body! presentation, please email Courtney Garrison.

Stewards of Children® 

This is a revolutionary training program that educates adults to prevent, recognize, and react responsibly to child sexual abuse, and motivates them to courageous action. The Stewards of Children® program is designed for parents and organizations that serve children and youth. The training is two hours and we provide CEU's for Social Workers, Licensed Professional Counselors, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, nurses and teachers. The training also meets all minimum requirements for daycare and summer camp staff.

If you have a group of 20 or more and would like to have the training brought to you, please email Katia Gonzalez.

Upcoming dates include: 

Tuesday, October 17th 2pm-4pm
One Safe Place
1100 Hemphill Street, Fort Worth, TX 76104

Saturday, November 11th 9am-11am
Arlington Alliance For Children
1320 West Abram Street, Arlington, TX 76013

Register Now!


Community Outreach and Education

General Presentations are conducted to raise awareness of the issue of child abuse and what Alliance For Children is doing in Tarrant County. These presentations can range in length from 15 minutes up to one hour.

For more information about our Community Engagement Program, please email Shellie McMillon.